Awesome Wedding Cake Idea

I saw the neatest idea today and just wanted to share it with you! I found it at www(dot)cakesbycremedelacreme(dot)com. They have a link on their site that says "Table and Individual". What they did was to put a small wedding cake at each table. One that serves 8-12 people. I love this idea because your guests don't have to wait in line for a piece of the cake, and you save money on centerpieces! Plus, it's something totally unique that I've never seen done before.

While looking at wedding cake sites (I don't know how I got onto that this morning), I also stumbled upon these awesome websites:

* Mike's Amazing Cakes - www(dot)mikesamazingcakes(dot)com

* New Ranaissance Cakes - www(dot)newrenaissancecakes(dot)com

Also, I think that the cupcake idea is adorable, especially for a kid's table at the wedding... Here's a site that is devoted only to cupcakes:

* Trophy Cupcakes - www(dot)trophycupcakes(dot)com

And one more idea to satisfy your sweet tooth -- I've had a handful of bride's mention to me that rather than doing a "big basket" full of stuff to leave in the hotel rooms for their out-of-town guests, they are opting for something smaller, cheaper and just as thoughtful... So, here's a great idea -- what about these precious hand decorated wedding cookies? Chrissie Schubert is the daughter of the nationally known "Sister Schubert" (the yummy yeast roll lady). Also, for all of you that are local to the "Wiregrass" they are one of our own, from Andalusia, Alabama. Her website is www(dot)cstreats(dot)com.

Now I'm hungry!

~Laurie

How Many Wedding Programs to Order?

The "Anna" Wedding Program

"How Many Wedding Programs Should I Order?" This is a question that I'm asked on a daily basis, so I figurred that it's something that people are wanting to know. I normally tell my customers that if they are planning on 250 guests, then they should order around 200 programs. Usually, a couple will get one rather than each person.



If you have program attendants (people handing out programs), you can tell them to only hand out one program per person. But, keep in mind that a lot of women (who have husband's like mine who hate getting dressed up and doing any social), will come to the wedding alone -- so don't cut the number of wedding programs you order in half , or you won't have enough. Also, make sure that you are ordering enough for your wedding party and for keepsakes for yourself.



There is one exception to this -- if you are planning on sitting one wedding program in each seat, then of course, you will need one program for each person that is there. It does look very nice to display your programs this way, but it will cost you more since you will have to order one for each person.



I live in a very small town and they do the strangest thing here -- they don't send wedding invitations locally, but just to out of town guests. Then, they put one invitation in the local newspaper and area church bulletins. This is a great cost-saving thing, but it doesn't help at all when you are planning on a total number of guests! For those of you like that -- my best answer is to ask other brides in your area who have gotten married recently how many guests they had in attendance, so that you will have something to go by...

The Shower Gift that Keeps on Giving!

I heard the best idea last week and right when I heard it, I said to the person "I should blog about that"! So, here it is: my customer was looking for a pre-printed paper that she could put in with the invitations she was sending out for a baby shower. The invitation stated to return the enclosed card with a note on it for the baby. Here's the neat part -- each guest was assigned a year and the baby will get one card per year until they are as old as the number of guests invited.

I thought that this would be a splendid idea for a bridal shower or couple's shower as well -- they could open one card on each anniversary and receive a wish, blessing, prayer, poem or funny story from a dear friend. Depending on circumstances, it may be from a friend that they have lost contact with, or a person who has passed away. I just think that is the neatest idea.

Another customer of mine did a similar thing for her mother's 90th birthday party. They did not want for people to bring gifts, but they knew how much their mother enjoyed receiving cards from friends. So, they provided 4" x 6" cards to each guest to write their favorite memory on and put them together in a photo album that was presented to her at the event.

Ornament Shower or Holiday Shower Theme

Since the holidays just past, I was reminded of one of my favorite shower themes: The Holiday Shower. This could be done at any time of year. Here is how it works - your guests are issued an invitation that has some really cute wording. Something like this:

Each and every holiday is special for different reasons
Let's shower Angie with gifts to celebrate the seasons

Please join us for a
Holiday Shower
in honor of
Angie Willis
Sunday, March 17, 2008
2:00 - 3:30 p.m.
Amy Cox's Home
129 Woodland Cove Drive
Monticello, Florida

Please bring a gift for __________.

(Fill in the blank with different holidays that the honoree recognizes -- Easter, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Fourth of July, etc).

If you really want to go the extra mile, you could go to a stationery shop that has a good selection of invitations and pick out a couple of each holiday and coordinate the paper you use with the holiday they have been assigned.

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Another idea is the ornament shower. This shower has been incresingly popular in my little town of Elba, Alabama in the past couple of years and is always held in November or December. Since we do live in a tiny town, one of the local shopkeepers will decorate a tree with selections that the bride picked out to decorate "her" tree. The invitation reads something like this:

Please join us for a
Christmas Ornament Shower
in honor of
Miss Meredith Lowery
on Sunday, November 21, 2010
at the home of Amy Cox
129 Woodland Cove Drive
Monticello, Florida

~ Hostesses ~
Christina Hopkins, Pamela Smith, Susan Miller,
Valerie Moorehead and Lynn Robbins

~ Registry ~
The Lowery-Jones Tree is on display at the Strawberry Patch.

How to Word a Traditional Wedding Invitation

Invitations and announcements are usually issued by the parents of the bride, or the surviving parent. If the bride is without parents, invitations may be issued by the closest relative. The accepted order of kinship is as follows:
1. Elder brother
2. Elder sister
3. Both grandparents or surviving grandparent
4. Uncle and aunt
5. Guardian
6. Bride and Groom issue invitations themselves
7. Groom's family

Generally, the parents of the groom are not mentioned unless they are splitting the expense of the wedding.



If the bride's father and mother are issuing the invitations, the conventional form is:

Mr. and Mrs. Larry Dean Cliett
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Laurie Anne
to
Mr. James Walter Chapman, Jr.
on Saturday, the twenty-first of March
Two thousand and ten
at six o'clock in the evening
Fellowship Presbyterian Church
Tallahassee, Florida

If the father or mother is deceased and the surviving parent issues the invitation:

Mrs. (or Mr.) Larry Dean Cliett
requests the honour of your presence
at the marriage of her (his) daughter
Laurie Anne
to
Mr. James Walter Chapman, Jr.
on Saturday, the twenty-first of March
Two thousand and ten
at six o'clock in the evening
Fellowship Presbyterian Church
Tallahassee, Florida

If the father or mother is deceased and the surviving parent has remarried, the remarried mother would use her present husband's name, but the remarried father would use the conventional form:

Mrs. David Lee Carson
requests the honour of your presence
at the marriage of her daughter
Laurie Anne Cliett
(etc...)

If the bride's parents are deceased and the invitation is issued by an older, unmarried sister or brother:

Mr. Thomas Allen Harper
requests the honour of your presence
at the marriage of his sister
(etc...)

If the bride's parents are deceased and the invitation is issued by an older married brother or sister:

Mr. and Mrs. Robert David Thornton
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of his sister
(etc...)

If the bride and groom issue their own invitations, the conventional wording would be:

Miss Laurie Anne Cliett
and
Mr. James Walter Chapman, Jr.
request the honour of your presence
at their marriage
(etc...)

The proper way to word an invitation when the bride's parents are divorced is to list the names of the bride's parents at the top of the invitation. Her mother's name is on the first line and her father's name is on the line beneath it. The lines are not separated by "and". If the bride's mother has not remarried, she uses "Mrs." followed by her first name, maiden name, and married name.

Mrs. Sally Jones Harper

A divorced father who issues the invitation uses the conventional form:

Mr. Matthew Ellis Harper

If the groom's family issues the invitations:

Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Allen Lee
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of
Miss Anne Haley Harper
to their son
Mr. Michael Samuel Lee
(etc...)

Love Poems, Quote and Bible Verses...

Brides will often ask me for a poem, quote or Bible verse that would be appropriate for them to use on their invitations or programs. So, I thought that I'd post my list here, for all the world to enjoy! I have compiled this list from a variety of sources including wedding books, the internet, the Bible, and from some things that brides have given to me to use. Enjoy!

~Laurie

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Two Loves
By Father Abram J. Ryan

Two loves came up a long, wide aisle,
And knelt at a low, white gate;
One—tender and true, with a shyest smile,
One—strong, true and elate.

Two lips spoke in a firm true way,
And two lips answered soft and low;
In one true hand such a little hand lay
Fluttering, frail as a flake of snow.
One stately head bent humble there,
Stilled were the throbbings of human love;
One head drooped down like a lily fair,

Two prayers went, wing to wing, above.
God blest them both in the holy place,
Long brief moment till the rite was done;
On the human love fell a heavenly grace,
Making two hearts forever one.

Between two lengthening rows of smiles,
One sweetly shy, one proud, elate,
Two loves passed down the long wide aisle
Will they ever forget the low white gate?

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No speed of wind or water rushing by
But you have speed far greater. You can climb
Back up a stream of radiance to the sky,
And back through history up the stream of time.
And you were given this swiftness, not for haste,
Not chiefly that you may go where you will,
But in the rush of everything to waste,
That you may have the power of standing still-
Off any still or moving thing you say.
Two such as you with such a master speed
Cannot be parted nor be swept away
From one another once you are agreed
That life is only life forevermore
Together wing to wing and oar to oar.

-Robert Frost-

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Love is like an eternal flame,
once it is lit,
it will continue to burn for all time.

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Love bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes all things,
endures all things.

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A life of sharing, caring
A love of endless giving together.

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Two souls with but a single thought,
two hearts that beat as one.

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There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved.

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I love you not only for what you are,
but for what I am when I am with you

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A new day
A new life
Together

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Two lives, two hearts
Joined together in friendship
United forever in
Love

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You are:
The smile on my face
The beat in my heart
The light of my day
The dark of my night

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You are:
The dreams I dream
The passion I possess
The soul I adore
The one I love

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You bring into my life
a sense of oneness,
shared by two.

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When I think of my love for you,
it can only be compared to the
greatest feelings of love in the world
And that is God’s Love.

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A Dove of Love has touched my Heart
Sprinkling purity each day that I start
Faith, Hope and Love is the way I shall be
Forever yours eternally

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You are my best friend and soul mate
May the Love that we have for each other
Last forever in our hearts and soul.

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My love I do give to you,
more than words can explain.
That's why I thank the Lord for you,
each and everyday!

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For on this day and every day after,
I plan to fill your heart with love and laughter.

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Just for you
I give my heart
For years to come
'Til death do us part

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My gift to you is my love
Given from deep within my heart
It is the best I have to offer
And it's yours until this earth we depart

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In all my life
I have never known
someone like you who
makes me feel so complete
in everyway.....

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Two lives, two hearts
Joined together in Love.

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Whoever lives in love
Lives in God…
I John 4:16

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This day I will marry my best friend,
The one I laugh with,
Live for, dream with and
Love

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Love knows no limit to its endurance
no end to its trust,
Love still stands
when all else has fallen.

1 Corinthians 13:7-8

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I love you not only for what you are,
but for what I am when I am with you.

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I love you today
As I have from the start,
And I'll love you forever
With all of my heart.

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I do believe that God above,
Created you for me to love.
He chose you from all the rest,
Because he knew I would love you the best.

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You are the one
who makes me whole.
You've captured my heart
and touched my soul.

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You are the one
that stepped out of my dreams,
gave me new hope and
showed me what love means.

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You alone are my reason to live
for the compassion you show
and the care that you give.

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You came into my life
and made me complete.
Each time I see you
my heart skips a beat.

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You are the one
God sent from above
The angel I needed
For whom I do love

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All I ever wanted was to be part of your heart,
And for us to be together, to never be apart.

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No one else in the world can even compare,
You're perfect and so is this love that we share.

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We have so much more than I ever thought we would,
I love you more than I ever thought I could.

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I promise to give you all I have to give,
I'll do anything for you as long as I live.

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In your eyes I see our present,
our future and past.
By the way you look at me,
I know we will last.

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I hope that one day
you'll come to realize,
how perfect you are
when seen through my eyes.

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I asked God for a flower, he gave me a bouquet
I asked God for a minute, he gave me a day
I asked God for true love, he gave me that too
I asked for an angel and he gave me you.

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Forever is what I want with you
For the search is at an end
Our hearts have found each other
As lovers, as soul mates, as friends.

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Our lives entwined to be as one,
Upon this journey we’ve just begun.
Where you and I will find no less,
Than eternal love and happiness.

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The Meaning of Love
Love is patient, Love is kind.
It does not envy, It does not boast,
It is not proud, It is not rude,
It is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil
But rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
Always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

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Across the years
I will walk with you,
in deep green forests
on shores of sand.
And when our time
on earth is through,
in heaven too,
you will have my hand.

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Two souls fused by commitment,
Two names written in the stars above,
Two lives intertwined by God,
Two hearts joined by the purest of love.

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As You Marry
On this your wedding day
May angels smile upon you
For a single heart now beats
Where once there had been two
The Lord has brought you to this day
Through all of life's confusions
To come full circle all the way
To bless your wedded union
May your days be filled with laughter
And your nights be filled with peace
As you grow old together
Sharing happiness and ease
For a man shall be a woman's heart
And a woman be a man's
Til the oceans cease to flow
And deserts lose their sands
"This is my beloved, and this is my friend."

Song of Solomon 5:16

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"God has poured out his love into our hearts."

Romans 5:5 (NIV)

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"Only through Christ will we find true oneness in marriage, the kind He created for us from the beginning."

1 Corinthians 13:8 (NIV)

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"Love is patient and kind, always trusts. Love never fails."

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

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"If we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us."

I John 4:12 (NIV)

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"Love yesterday, today and forever."

Jeremiah 31:3

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"The two will become one."

Ephesians 5:31 (NIV)

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"So they are no longer two, but one.
Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

Matthew 19:6 (NIV)

Selecting your perfect invitation and saving money along the way!

I've been selling wedding invitations for over seven years now and I can honestly say that I love what I do. I enjoy meeting wonderful young ladies and help them plan for the single most important day of their life. Finding the perfect wedding invitation is critical as it is the first impression your guests will have of what type of wedding they will be attending. Sure, the wedding dress is super-important, as is the wedding cake, and the wedding music, but your guests can't take them home and hang them on their refrigerator for weeks!

So, how do you find your perfect wedding invitation? The first thing that I ask a bride when I sit down with her is if she already has something in mind for what she is wanting. Some brides will already have their mind made up, so my job is made really easy.

For those that are less decisive, I then ask them what type of wedding they are planning - what their wedding dress is like, where will the ceremony be held, what time is the wedding, what are the plans for the reception, what is her budget like... This allows me to find out her style and her financial situation -- is she traditional or trendy, plain or fancy, upscale or casual? From there I can pretty well figure out which invitation will fit her perfectly.



For the traditional bride on a budget: I usually suggest something simple with black ink. The price to change the ink color is very minimal, so don't let those of you who are budget-minded worry about that. However, black ink is the traditional standard. That being said, there are several other colors that will still give off the "formal" feel that aren't black. You can also dress up your invitation by adding an inital or design to the top.

Usually, I start brides off in the thermography section of my wedding invitation books. Thermography is a finishing technique applied after printing that raises the ink and gives the effect of engraved printing. It looks like a genuine engraved invitation, but without the extra expense. The only visual difference between the two is that if you turn them over and look on the back side, you will see a dent on the genuine engraved invitations (a "bruise") that will not be visable on an invitation printed in thermography. In the engraving process, they actually make a metal plate that is pressed into the paper to raise the letters.

Now, for those brides that are traditional and money is no object, then I have no problem selling them genuine engraved if that is what they want! I just feel like I'm ripping off people when I sell them, because it just doesn't make sense to me to spend all that money. But, I also understand when they tell me that they can't settle for anything less than the best, so I'll let them have it!



My husband likes to pick on me and tell me that I'm too honest to be in business. What he means, is that I will tell a bride when she's getting ripped off, even if it means that I'm going to make less money. I have always given 25% off the book prices from the national wedding companies that I represent (Carlson Craft, National Engraving, Regency Thermographers, McPherson's, and NuArt). I feel like I am helping out my customers by saving them a wad of cash and in-turn I get more business because they recommend me to their friends. It's worked for me for over seven years now, so I guess I'll stick with that philosophy!

Then, there are the brides that are more trendy and want something that will make a statement and won't be forgotten easily. For them, I usually start by finding out what colors or theme they will be using with on their big day. If their wedding day is in December, I may recommend a holiday-inspired invitation. If the ceremony is to be held on the beach, a simple invitation with a nautical feel may be the ticket. If they are doing everything red -- they are in luck! There are some exquiste invitations in red these days -- red ink, red paper, a red border, red ribbons...so trendy and so cute!



There are those brides that are into the "fru-fru" invitations (myself included). These brides may be drawn to the invitations that are matched with a vellum overlay or adorned with a coordinating bow. There are tons of precious invitations that fall into this category, but beware -- they more "stuff", the more money!

For the bride that is only concerned with saving money, there are many beautiful invitations for you too!!! Nothing upsets me more than the fact that Wal-Mart sells do-it-yourself invitations. To all of those who have gone that route: TAKE THEM BACK BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! They cost MORE than some of the high quality invitations printed in thermography (raised lettering) that you can get from a professional printer. They make you think that since they are from Wal-Mart and you have to do them yourself you are getting a good deal. What they don't want you to know is that they usually don't include double envelopes (which is standard on most any invitation from any of the national companies) and that they are only selling you 25 or 50 at a time. If you need 50 invitations or less, then that is the only case in which I can make sense of buying your invitations from Wal-Mart! Ask for the "Tempo" book at any Carlson Craft retailer -- it's full of beautiful invitations and has outstanding prices.

When trying to save money here are some tips:
* Don't order an envelope liner (no one will notice, I promise!)
* Stay away from invitations that have bows, vellum or the "pearlized" stuff on them -- they are beautiful, but they cost more.
* Include your reception information at the bottom of your invitation rather than buying a separate reception card.

Whatever your budget and style, you are bound to find something to fit the occassion. Just keep in mind that with this single piece of paper you are setting the tone for your entire day, so make sure that it is appropriate to your situation. Happy shopping and let me know if I can help you in any way!